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| The Compatibility Test | |||
![]() Assess your relationship with someone special. |
2. Count the number of boxes you have checked in each column. 3. Key in the totals in the appropriate column at the bottom. |
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They see, hear, smell, taste and/or touch things ... |
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They think, sort, calculate and/or measure things ... |
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They are certain about what they know ... |
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They feel emotionally about things ... |
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They take action or make other people take action ... |
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Totals: The person you are assessing has ... |
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| Treat this way of understanding a relationship with great care. Your assessments of the other person and of yourself could be inaccurate. Please be aware that any judgment you make is entirely your responsibility. Always act respectfully and responsibly with everyone. |
These are the modes that could cause trouble in your relationship. They are the other person's strengths and your weaknesses. To restore balance, develop strengths in these modes or use your own strong modes as a counterweight. If they have 3 or more stronger modes, it could be difficult to develop a balanced relationship. |
These are the modes in which your compatibility with the other person could flourish. If the relationship strikes difficulties, move into these modes to restore the balance. |
These are the modes that will potentially harm your relationship. They are your strengths and the other person's weaknesses. If they have 3 or more weaker modes, you may dominate the relationship potentially leaving everyone dissatisfied. |